BEL MOONEY: Is my lover selfish for robbing me of my dream wedding?

Dear Bel, I’ve been with my partner for ten years; we have an 18-month-old son. For years I’ve dreamed of having a big, white wedding. Whenever I raise the subject, the response is: ‘I don’t want to.’ Pressing him for reasons, he says he doesn’t like being the centre of attention or doesn’t see the … Read more