Married At First Sight expert John Aiken: The telling signs your partner is having an affair

Married At First Sight expert John Aiken reveals the telling signs your partner is probably having an affair


The new season of Married At First Sight has already been rocked by infidelity.

And one of the show’s relationship experts has now revealed the tell-tale signs your partner is cheating.

‘If you’ve got these issues… then you’ve got a problem,’ warned John Aiken, 50, in an interview with 9Honey.

Betrayal: The new season of Married At First Sight has already been rocked by infidelity – and now one of the relationship experts has revealed the tell-tale signs your partner is cheating 

The first sign is ‘a change in behaviour’. 

‘Are they now going to work and spending later nights there? Have they started to go to the gym?’ wrote Aiken.

‘Secondly, have they become secretive? They’re hiding their phone, they’ve changed the password.’

The signs of a cheating partner 

  • A change in behaviour (e.g. working late, starting working out)
  • Becoming secretive (e.g. hiding their phone, changing passwords)
  • You don’t where they’re going 
  • The evasive behaviour has been going on for months, not weeks
Warning: The first sign is 'a change in behaviour', said John Aitken

Warning: The first sign is ‘a change in behaviour’, said John Aitken

He said another red flag is if ‘you don’t where they’re going’.

If the evasive behaviour has been going on ‘for several months, rather than just a couple of weeks’ then it’s more likely your partner is being unfaithful, he argued.

If you start noticing all these signs, Aiken warned, ‘your partner is probably having an affair’.

The signs: 'Secondly, have they become secretive?' Aitken added. Another red flag is if 'you don't where they're going', and if the evasive behaviour has been going on 'for several months'

The signs: ‘Secondly, have they become secretive?’ Aitken added. Another red flag is if ‘you don’t where they’re going’, and if the evasive behaviour has been going on ‘for several months’

Married At First Sight newlyweds Sam Carraro and Coco Stedman were one of three couples who chose to leave the social experiment on Sunday.

They departed after Coco shared a secret kiss with another groom, Cameron Dunne, who was paired with single mother Samantha Harvey.

Another couple, Beth Moore and Russell Duance, also left the show, but there was no third party involved in their decision to split.

Doghouse: Three Married At First Sight couples quit the experiment on Sunday, with Cameron Dunne and Samantha Harvey ending things because of his infidelity

Doghouse: Three Married At First Sight couples quit the experiment on Sunday, with Cameron Dunne and Samantha Harvey ending things because of his infidelity