Jeannie Mai responds to backlash after saying she wants to ‘submit’ to future husband Jeezy

Jeannie Mai shares a post about ‘power’ as she responds to backlash after saying she wants to ‘submit’ to future husband Jeezy

Jeannie Mai is setting the records straight after questionable commentary on a recent episode of The Real.

The 41-year-old fashion expert shared a post to Instagram about the roles of ‘power’ following backlash for saying she wants to ‘submit’ to her future husband Jeezy once they are married.

Jeannie admitted she’s a ‘very dominant woman’ but wants to ‘submit to my man,’ comments which shocked fans.

Boss: Jeannie Mai is setting the records straight after questionable commentary on a recent episode of The Real

The Dancing With The Stars competitor became engaged to rapper Jeezy in April and was previously married to Freddy Harteis for 10 years.  

‘By giving the power to have someone lead in your life is power in itself,’ she attempted to clarify on Instagram. ‘The power to relinquish control. You ‘willingly submit’ not ‘forcibly submit.”

Jeannie explained on The Real last week that ‘submitting has a negative connotation’ which can at times mean a lesser or lower value.

Oh: Jeannie admitted she's a 'very dominant woman' but wants to 'submit to my man,' comments which shocked fans

Oh: Jeannie admitted she’s a ‘very dominant woman’ but wants to ‘submit to my man,’ comments which shocked fans

Interesting: Jeannie explained on The Real last week that 'submitting has a negative connotation' which can at times mean a lesser or lower value

Interesting: Jeannie explained on The Real last week that ‘submitting has a negative connotation’ which can at times mean a lesser or lower value

‘What I really learned in my life for my definition of marriage — I’m a very dominant woman. I own my business, I lead my team … I make the decisions in my life,’ she said. ‘When I come home, I like the idea that my man leads us. 

She added: ‘That doesn’t mean that Jay makes all the decisions for us.’ 

Garcelle Beauvais, Adriene Bailon and Loni Love listened on as she shared her explanation for submitting. 

Love: The Dancing With The Stars competitor became engaged to rapper Jeezy in April and was previously married to Freddy Harteis for 10 years;  seen in October 2019

Love: The Dancing With The Stars competitor became engaged to rapper Jeezy in April and was previously married to Freddy Harteis for 10 years;  seen in October 2019

‘I don’t want to lead in our household or in our marriage. I love that my husband will be the man that leads,’ she said.

‘I like that structure in a marriage and I look forward to that because … girls it’s tiring being the boss of me. It’s tiring leading all the time in my life.’ 

Jeezy — who’s full name is Jay Wayne Jenkins — has three children from previous relationships: Shyheim, 25; Jadarius, 24; and Amra Nor, six. 

'I don't want to lead in our household or in our marriage. I love that my husband will be the man that leads,' she said; seen in February

‘I don’t want to lead in our household or in our marriage. I love that my husband will be the man that leads,’ she said; seen in February