Married At First Sight: The tragic past of troubled groom Jake Edwards

He’s the handsome charity CEO who captured hearts across Australia when he made his debut on Monday night’s episode of Married At First Sight.

But behind Jake Edwards’ charming smile lies a tragic past of depression, anxiety and substance abuse that almost led to him committing suicide.

Jake, 32, was once a rising AFL star playing for the Carlton Football Club, but his dreams of becoming a professional athlete were sadly cut short.    

Heartbreaking past: Behind Married At First Sight groom Jake Edwards’ picture-perfect looks lies a tragic past of depression, anxiety and substance abuse that eventually led him to contemplate taking his own life

Jake abandoned his promising footy career after one poor game at the age of 19. 

He decided to drive home to his parents’ farm, calling Carlton management on the way to tell them he was quitting the sport. 

What he had kept from his coaches and teammates was that he was going through a daily struggle that included insomnia and loneliness, and he didn’t know how to ask for help. 

Quit: At age 19, Jake abruptly abandoned his promising football career after one poor game. Pictured in November 2007

Quit: At age 19, Jake abruptly abandoned his promising football career after one poor game. Pictured in November 2007 

‘I did what every typical young male does and just closed off. I didn’t want to talk about it, I didn’t want people to know about it. I eventually had a meltdown and went to see mum and dad. I just couldn’t get out of bed,’ he told QWeekend

Jake said he was angry and confused because he didn’t understand why he was going through a mental health crisis.

After being diagnosed with depression and anxiety, Jake began taking medication and was able to return to Carlton.

Private battle: What he had kept from his coaches and fellow teammates was that he was enduring a daily battle that included insomnia, self-isolation, and crying and he was lost about where to seek help

Private battle: What he had kept from his coaches and fellow teammates was that he was enduring a daily battle that included insomnia, self-isolation, and crying and he was lost about where to seek help  

Describing himself as young and naive, he said he thought he had found a solution to his problems by simply taking antidepressants.

He didn’t ask enough questions after being diagnosed because he was so eager to just get back on the field, and failed to appreciate that managing his mental health would be an ongoing issue.

A few years later, after leaving Carlton for the Western Bulldogs, he was overlooked in the AFL draft – a blow that saw his depression resurface.  

Medication: After being diagnosed with depression and anxiety, Jake began taking medication and was able to return to Carlton. However, his mental health still remained an ongoing problem

Medication: After being diagnosed with depression and anxiety, Jake began taking medication and was able to return to Carlton. However, his mental health still remained an ongoing problem 

Jake’s mental health resulted in him drinking and taking drugs to self-medicate, and he eventually tried to take his own life in his bathroom after a four-day binge. 

‘I thought it was the right thing to do at the time, that my family could move on and friends could stop worrying about me. But what I know now is everything I was saying to myself at that time was all fabricated,’ he said.

Jake is doing much better these days, and is using his experience to help other young athletes handle their mental health problems. 

He runs his own not-for-profit organisation, Outside the Locker Room, which promotes positive mental health in sports clubs and schools. 

Devastating: A few years later, after having left Carlton and moved on to training with the Western Bulldogs, he was overlooked in the AFL draft - a blow that would see his condition resurface with a vengeance

Devastating: A few years later, after having left Carlton and moved on to training with the Western Bulldogs, he was overlooked in the AFL draft – a blow that would see his condition resurface with a vengeance 

About 200 sporting clubs, including the Brisbane Lions, have signed up to the program. 

Outside the Locker Room provides education sessions about drugs, alcohol, cyber-bullying, domestic violence and suicide prevention.

For confidential support call the Lifeline 24-hour crisis support on 13 11 14

'I thought it was the right thing to do at the time, that my family could move on and friends could stop worrying about me': Jake lapsed into him into a booze and drugs spiral that culminated in him trying to commit suicide in his bathroom after a four-day binge

‘I thought it was the right thing to do at the time, that my family could move on and friends could stop worrying about me’: Jake lapsed into him into a booze and drugs spiral that culminated in him trying to commit suicide in his bathroom after a four-day binge 

Recovery: It is a far cry from where the 32-year-old is today, having launched his own not-for-profit 'Outside the Locker Room' aimed promoting mental health in sports clubs and schools

Recovery: It is a far cry from where the 32-year-old is today, having launched his own not-for-profit ‘Outside the Locker Room’ aimed promoting mental health in sports clubs and schools