Glee alum Becca Tobin says ‘stop asking women about fertility’ after sharing detailed IVF update

Glee alum Becca Tobin says ‘stop asking women about their fertility’ after sharing detailed IVF update

Glee alum Becca Tobin and her husband – ABV agent Zach Martin – revealed October 21 that they have five viable frozen embryos ready to implant after suffering the heartbreak of two miscarriages.

But the 34-year-old triple-threat just spoke out asking fans and friends not to inquire further about their IVF journey.

‘Please don’t text me. We just need to understand that: Stop asking women about their fertility, and let them volunteer the information and read the room,’ Becca told People on Tuesday.  

IVF update: Glee alum Becca Tobin and her husband – ABV agent Zach Martin – revealed October 21 that they have five viable frozen embryos ready to implant after suffering the heartbreak of two miscarriages (pictured October 31)

‘I know that the next couple months, there are going to be a few comments on Instagram. Like, “Is that a baby bump? Are you pregnant?” That stuff is really tough.

‘And I can’t stress it enough that we just have to stop. We have to allow women to share their news when they’re ready, and the speculation and the questions just adds more stress and pressure to a family.’

This, after Tobin and Martin sat down for a six-minute conversation with their fertility specialist, Dr. Said Daneshmand, via Instagram.

Daneshmand estimated the couple have a ’70-80 percent chance of implantation, pregnancy, and delivery’ with at least three of their five embryos.  

'Stop asking women about their fertility': But the 34-year-old triple-threat just spoke out asking fans and friends not to inquire further about their IVF journey (pictured October 21)

‘Stop asking women about their fertility’: But the 34-year-old triple-threat just spoke out asking fans and friends not to inquire further about their IVF journey (pictured October 21)

Becca told People on Tuesday: 'I can't stress it enough that we just have to stop. We have to allow women to share their news when they're ready, and the speculation and the questions just adds more stress and pressure to a family'

Becca told People on Tuesday: ‘I can’t stress it enough that we just have to stop. We have to allow women to share their news when they’re ready, and the speculation and the questions just adds more stress and pressure to a family’

Educational or TMI? This, after Tobin and Martin sat down for a six-minute conversation with their fertility specialist, Dr. Said Daneshmand, via Instagram

Educational or TMI? This, after Tobin and Martin sat down for a six-minute conversation with their fertility specialist, Dr. Said Daneshmand, via Instagram

No risk of Down syndrome: Daneshmand estimated the couple have a '70-80 percent chance of implantation, pregnancy, and delivery' with at least three of their five embryos

No risk of Down syndrome: Daneshmand estimated the couple have a ’70-80 percent chance of implantation, pregnancy, and delivery’ with at least three of their five embryos

When the Georgia-born blonde asked how likely she’d miscarry after her uterus is prepared, Daneshmand reassured her by saying ‘age only has an effect on quality of eggs’ and her embryos are viable.

The LadyGang podcaster – who boasts 1.5M social media followers – noted that IVF isn’t covered by a lot of people’s health insurance.

But Becca and Zach can certainly afford it considering they bought a $1.87M Hollywood Hills home through Bravo’s Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles in July.

Reassurance: When the Georgia-born blonde asked how likely she'd miscarry after her uterus is prepared, Daneshmand noted 'age only has an effect on quality of eggs' and her embryos are viable

Reassurance: When the Georgia-born blonde asked how likely she’d miscarry after her uterus is prepared, Daneshmand noted ‘age only has an effect on quality of eggs’ and her embryos are viable

'I hope that changes soon': The LadyGang podcaster - who boasts 1.5M social media followers - noted that IVF isn't covered by a lot of people's health insurance

‘I hope that changes soon’: The LadyGang podcaster – who boasts 1.5M social media followers – noted that IVF isn’t covered by a lot of people’s health insurance

Home sweet home: But Becca and Zach can certainly afford it considering they bought a $1.87M Hollywood Hills home through Bravo's Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles in July

Home sweet home: But Becca and Zach can certainly afford it considering they bought a $1.87M Hollywood Hills home through Bravo’s Million Dollar Listing Los Angeles in July

Canadian life: Tobin and Martin - who celebrate their fourth wedding anniversary on December 3 - are waiting to implant until after she finishes a six-month shoot in Vancouver (pictured Saturday)

Canadian life: Tobin and Martin – who celebrate their fourth wedding anniversary on December 3 – are waiting to implant until after she finishes a six-month shoot in Vancouver (pictured Saturday)

Tobin and Martin – who celebrate their fourth wedding anniversary on December 3 – are waiting to implant until after she finishes a six-month shoot in Vancouver.

The Joe Biden supporter plays a federal prosecutor called Brooke in McG and Matthew Nix’s 12-episode reboot of Turner & Hooch for Disney+.

Roger Spottiswoode’s original K-9 buddy cop comedy – starring Tom Hanks and a French mastiff – amassed $71.1M at the box office despite dismal reviews back in 1989.

'#TurnerandHooch': The Joe Biden supporter plays a federal prosecutor called Brooke in McG and Matthew Nix's (L) 12-episode reboot of Turner & Hooch for Disney+ (pictured October 10)

‘#TurnerandHooch’: The Joe Biden supporter plays a federal prosecutor called Brooke in McG and Matthew Nix’s (L) 12-episode reboot of Turner & Hooch for Disney+ (pictured October 10)

31 years ago! Roger Spottiswoode's original K-9 buddy cop comedy - starring Tom Hanks and a French mastiff - amassed $71.1M at the box office despite dismal reviews back in 1989

31 years ago! Roger Spottiswoode’s original K-9 buddy cop comedy – starring Tom Hanks and a French mastiff – amassed $71.1M at the box office despite dismal reviews back in 1989