Shahs of Sunset: Reza Farahan decides not to lift restraining order after telling MJ he would

This week’s season eight finale of Shahs of Sunset finds the cast returning to Los Angeles from their Hawaiian getaway. 

But the drama didn’t stay in the Aloha State, where Reza Farahan agreed to drop all charges against Mercedes ‘MJ’ Javid’s husband Tommy.

Back home in LA, MJ and Tommy have lunch with her mom as they plan a sip-and-see (a baby shower after the baby is born) for their son Shams.  

Sip-and-see: On this week’s Shahs of Sunset, MJ and Tommy have lunch with her mom as they plan a sip-and-see (a baby shower after the baby is born) for their son Shams

She also updates her mom on the situation with Reza, saying she won’t invite him to the sip-and-see until he goes through with dropping charges.

Meanwhile Reza and husband Adam go to a pottery class, where they discuss dropping the charges.

Although Adam doesn’t want to pursue criminal charges, he doesn’t feel safe dropping the restraining order.

The disagreement causes tension between the couple, as Reza appears torn between his husband and his best friend. 

Not invited: She also updates her mom on the situation with Reza, saying she won't invite him to the sip-and-see until he goes through with dropping charges, which he said he would in Hawaii

Not invited: She also updates her mom on the situation with Reza, saying she won’t invite him to the sip-and-see until he goes through with dropping charges, which he said he would in Hawaii

Romantic outing: Meanwhile Reza and husband Adam go to a pottery class, where they discuss dropping the charges

Romantic outing: Meanwhile Reza and husband Adam go to a pottery class, where they discuss dropping the charges

Sense of safety: Although Adam doesn't want to pursue criminal charges, he doesn't feel safe dropping the restraining order

Sense of safety: Although Adam doesn’t want to pursue criminal charges, he doesn’t feel safe dropping the restraining order

Tensions rise: The disagreement causes tension between the couple, as Reza appears torn between his husband and his best friend

Tensions rise: The disagreement causes tension between the couple, as Reza appears torn between his husband and his best friend

Destiney Rose is seen taking her dog Frank Sinatra to shop for a present for the sip-and-see when she gets a FaceTime call from Mike Shouhed. 

He reveals he’s not attending, after his blowout with MJ in Hawaii, where she badmouthed him to his girlfriend Paulina: ‘She made Paulina feel some kinda way.’ 

At the sip-and-see, Nema Vand arrives with his sister Mona, who admits she has a case of baby fever. 

Nema reveals he never wants to have kids, ‘because our parents f***ed us up so much.’ 

Sara Jeihooni was on-hand to offer some perspective, opening up about how she lost her dad in a car accident when she was 14.

Nema and Shervin Roohparvar then get the message that Mike isn’t coming, as Destiney defends him: ‘He has a right to feel this way. That’s his woman.’

But with Reza and Golnesa ‘GG’ Gharachedaghi not in attendance either, MJ is upset with her friends. 

Baby fever: At the sip-and-see, Nema Vand arrives with his sister Mona, who admits she has a case of baby fever

Baby fever: At the sip-and-see, Nema Vand arrives with his sister Mona, who admits she has a case of baby fever

Fatherhood material: Nema reveals he never wants to have kids, 'because our parents f***ed us up so much'

Fatherhood material: Nema reveals he never wants to have kids, ‘because our parents f***ed us up so much’

Some perspective: Sara Jeihooni was on-hand to offer some perspective, opening up about how she lost her dad in a car accident when she was 14

Some perspective: Sara Jeihooni was on-hand to offer some perspective, opening up about how she lost her dad in a car accident when she was 14

No-show: Nema and Shervin Roohparvar then get the message that Mike Shouhed isn't coming, as Destiney defends him: 'He has a right to feel this way. That's his woman'

No-show: Nema and Shervin Roohparvar then get the message that Mike Shouhed isn’t coming, as Destiney defends him: ‘He has a right to feel this way. That’s his woman’

Party pooper: But with Reza and Golnesa 'GG' Gharachedaghi not in attendance either, MJ is upset with her friends

Party pooper: But with Reza and Golnesa ‘GG’ Gharachedaghi not in attendance either, MJ is upset with her friends

Mother/daughter time: Meanwhile, GG is having some maternal struggles of her own, as she has her own mom over

Mother/daughter time: Meanwhile, GG is having some maternal struggles of her own, as she has her own mom over

Trying again: She reveals that she's giving IVF another shot, having previously suffered a miscarriage

Trying again: She reveals that she’s giving IVF another shot, having previously suffered a miscarriage

Family dinner: Nema later joins Mona, their younger half-sister Sara and their dad for dinner, celebrating Sara's graduation

Family dinner: Nema later joins Mona, their younger half-sister Sara and their dad for dinner, celebrating Sara’s graduation

Father's son: He gets emotional when the topic of parenthood comes up, leaving the table as his father follows to try to fix their relationship

Father’s son: He gets emotional when the topic of parenthood comes up, leaving the table as his father follows to try to fix their relationship

Meanwhile, GG is having some maternal struggles of her own, as she has her own mom over.

She reveals that she’s giving IVF another shot, having previously suffered a miscarriage.    

Nema later joins Mona, their younger half-sister Sara and their dad for dinner, celebrating Sara’s graduation. 

When the topic of parenthood comes up, Mona asks their dad if he thinks Nema should become a dad, which responded with an overwhelming yes.

‘There’s no way,’ Nema responds before getting emotional and walking away from the table, his dad following.

After a flashback of a therapy session about how he’s angry with his dad, Nema opens up.

He says in a confessional: ‘We’ve not had a sincere moment of closeness in years. Neither of us has made the first move in our relationship. It’s like a game of chicken between father and son.’

Father and son have a breakthrough, as dad promises to fix their relationship, and they agree to do family dinners more often.   

Scene of the crime: Meanwhile, the gang prepares for an Independence Day party at Sara's, which was the scene of Reza and MJ's big blowout

Scene of the crime: Meanwhile, the gang prepares for an Independence Day party at Sara’s, which was the scene of Reza and MJ’s big blowout

Legal reasons: After the former besties greet each other with friendly formalities, Reza reveals to Nema that he and Adam didn't go to the sip-and-see because of their restraining order

Legal reasons: After the former besties greet each other with friendly formalities, Reza reveals to Nema that he and Adam didn’t go to the sip-and-see because of their restraining order

Through the grapevine: Shortly after, Nema fills in MJ about Reza not dropping the restraining order, which results in another near blowout

Through the grapevine: Shortly after, Nema fills in MJ about Reza not dropping the restraining order, which results in another near blowout

Escalating quickly: Reza tries to reason with MJ about keeping the restraining order, arguing that instead of bringing a bat, Tommy could come to their house with a gun or knife the next time

Escalating quickly: Reza tries to reason with MJ about keeping the restraining order, arguing that instead of bringing a bat, Tommy could come to their house with a gun or knife the next time

Burn it down: MJ pleads with Reza, telling him: 'I will burn this house down if you don't lift everything'

Burn it down: MJ pleads with Reza, telling him: ‘I will burn this house down if you don’t lift everything’

Meanwhile, the gang prepares for an Independence Day party at Sara’s, which was the scene of Reza and MJ’s big blowout. 

After the former besties greet each other with friendly formalities, Reza reveals to Nema that he and Adam didn’t go to the sip-and-see because of their restraining order.         

Reza says in a confessional: ‘Adam wants me to take a stand for him and our marriage. I’m going to respect my husband’s wishes. How could I not?’ 

Shortly after, Nema fills in MJ about Reza not dropping the restraining order, which results in another near blowout.

Reza tries to reason with MJ about keeping the restraining order, arguing that instead of bringing a bat, Tommy could come to their house with a gun or knife the next time.  

MJ pleads with Reza, telling him: ‘I will burn this house down if you don’t lift everything.’ 

When he doesn’t budge, MJ leaves, and Reza joins Adam and the rest of the gang for a group photo. 

After driving away, MJ says in a confessional: ‘I was open to fixing our friendship. But now my fear is how are ever going to get back there?’ 

Party's over: When he doesn't budge, MJ leaves, and Reza joins Adam and the rest of the gang for a group photo

Party’s over: When he doesn’t budge, MJ leaves, and Reza joins Adam and the rest of the gang for a group photo